Quick update. My love's hip and leg are injured from a combination of her exercising and carrying around our 3 year old. She is in a lot of pain and has been for a while. Basically, what this means is that our house, laundry, and cooked meals are the same they were before we started LDD, however now there is a reason so it does not bother me as much. I don't really have anyway to discipline her for disrespect (which she is still better at) and not keeping track of money because it hurts for her to even get up.
If anyone has some ideas for non-moving, non impact disciplines, I'd like to hear it. Basically our LDD life has been put on hold for a bit. I'm not happy about it and I know she isn't either, but what can we do right now?
Our relationship is still good and I think we will continue when she feels better.
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ReplyDeleteI am usually just a lurker. I hope it is not out of place of me, and I am very sorry if it is. Please accept my humblest apologies in advance. But you are asking for suggestions. Perhaps you could have your wife write essays for you if you feel the need to discipline her? About a year ago I broke my leg which made physical disciplines very hard, so while I was healing, my husband would often have me write an essay or do lines or copy from the dictionary rather than give me a more physical punishment like spanking. I would also advise to remember she is in pain and try to go easy, although of course as her HOH you know best. Hope this helped. Bye.
There are other things that you two could use if you desire. There can be the grounding, early bed time, not allowed to watch a favorite TV show, loss of a privlidge such as not allowed CDs in the car or something.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is different and what works for you best you two need to discuss. My belief is that anything sexual should not be involved in discipline or punishment. Erotic? Sure, but I would suggest staying away from intertwining figging and anal activites with discipline and punishment.
Well, the others have pretty much covered what is used in our house.
ReplyDeleteWritten punishments are used, to include essays, which cover what I did wrong, why it was wrong, what happened and what I should have done differently, lines (Hate lines!), copying passages from the bible, etc.
Corner time, especially when given when a favorite show is on.
Groundings work, as do restrictions, and no real limit to what you can come up with with those. Anything from early bedtimes, to loss of car, loss of phone or computer, clothing restrictions, etc.
wish you the best of luck,
Angie
Hi, am new to your blog - sorry it has taken a while to find, but am enjoying your posts and journey very much.
ReplyDeleteThere has been a lot of great ideas mentioned, however I just had a couple more to add.
Denial of sexual activities is a pretty harsh punishment, not being allowed to speak for a set amount of time unless given permission and like I think others mentioned being banned from things like using the phone or going out shopping etc.
Hope your wife feels better soon, and I personally think it is important to remain focussed and consistent with LDD in the trying times of life as (for me anyway) it helps one feel secure, safe and loved still!
Mrs M
How about depriving her of her favorite food or drink? Or not letting her shave under her arms? Or asking permission if she wants a drink?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, hope she feels better soon so you can get back to the stuff you like.